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Determine what you want and what you don't want and communicate your limits clearly to your partner. 没有人应该强迫你发生不想要的性行为。 If you are uncertain about what you want, ask your partner to respect your feelings.

Know that you have the right and power to say "No" and the right and power to defend yourself against someone who won't listen to you. If you say "No", say it firmly and directly. 然而，一个人可以通过言语或行为表达不同意。 A person need only resist, either verbally or physically, so as to make the person’s refusal to consent genuine and real and so as to reasonably make known to the actor the person’s refusal to consent. A person need not resist verbally or physically where it would be useless or futile to do so.

相信你的直觉。如果你觉得有什么不对劲，那很可能就是。 Remove yourself from the situation and get to a safe space as quickly as you can.

谨慎对待酒精和毒品。 Some people think that a drunk or stoned companion has automatically consented to sex, which is not correct. A person who is giving consent cannot be incapacitated by drugs or alcohol, unconscious, passed out, coming in and out of consciousness, under the threat of violence, injury or other forms of coercion, and cannot have a disorder, illness, or disability that would impair his/her understanding of the act or his/her ability to make decisions. A person who is giving consent cannot be forced, coerced or deceived into providing consent.

和你信任的朋友一起参加聚会。同意“照顾”彼此。 Try to leave with a group, rather than alone or with someone you don't know very well.

寻找约会关系中的危险信号。 If your partner restricts your activities, isolates you from friends, and displays jealous behavior, these are all signs of a potentially abusive relationship.

呆在公共场所，周围有其他人。 Avoid being alone with individuals you do not know and always remain within hearing/sight distance of others to avoid being trapped.

尊重伴侣的感受和需求。 Don't pressure anyone to go beyond the limits she or he has set. Listen carefully to your partner and ask for clarification if your partner seems unclear or is giving you a 'mixed message'.

Seek multiple signs of consent (verbal and non-verbal) during sexual activity throughout the entire activity. If at any time your partner does not appear to be giving consent or changes their mind, respect their decision and stop the activity.

如果你看到有人处于弱势，找到一个不具威胁性的方式来帮助他们。 Don't ignore a potential case of sexual violence -- get involved if you believe someone is at risk. 如果你在这种情况下，你会希望有人干预。

With alcohol and drugs, remember that they can interfere with your ability to assess situations and to communicate effectively. If you have sexual relations with a person under the influence or you yourself are under the influence of a substance, the situation could be reported as sexual violence, meaning trauma and legal consequences could result.

Be careful in group situations- resist pressure from friends to participate in or be subjected to violent or criminal acts.

不要对一个人的行为做出假设。 Don't automatically assume an individual wants to have sex just because they drink heavily, dress provocatively, or agree to go back to your room. You should always seek consent multiple times during and throughout any sexual activity.

Don't assume that just because a person has had sex with you previously she or he is willing to have sex with you again. Don't assume that just because your partner consents to kissing or other sexual intimacies that she or he is willing to have sexual intercourse. 在性亲密的每一步都获得对方的同意。

如果你注意到有人往别人的饮料里加东西，那就说出来。你可以防止约会强奸药的使用。 Report the behavior to a campus authority or law enforcement.

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